

49, at our most vulnerable
Vulnerability during prayer. It should be a code we all honor. I keep thinking about how far away New Zealand is. It feels...
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Music education transforms you: A letter to my son's teachers
Today I am sharting the note I wrote and wished that I sent to my son's music teachers. Somehow you hope that those instructors know that...
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The Value of Integrating a Pet
If you have one of these small animals living with you, such as a dog, cat, etc. You know that they have their signals, they read yours,...
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Birthdays
If years were counted in more than days what would we say? We would talk more about the tears, the smiles, and the fears. We would hug...
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Teen versus Marvel: The Saga Continues
Last night was supposed to be a Marvel movie night, a reward for our son's hard work on the piano. But things didn't go as planned. Let...
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Do you want a Mom?
I want a Mom. Our son asked for his phone to go out with his Dad. He was going to sit in the lobby at work while Dad had a meeting, or in...
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Magical Ending - Teen Style
I had to remember, in the moment that my teen and I were talking, “THIS IS MAGIC.” Not the scolding. Or my forthcoming punishment to...
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Round Two: Talk Smack and Love the Fight
Well, my mother would have been 79 today had she lived. What a funny sentence. Had she lived. She did live. And we loved her. We...
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Phone Repo
We took away our son's phone on Dec 2. It was pending after many heated, prolonged, entitled exchanges. I know my husband thought it...
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Primping and Parties - Embracing our role in our Family Structure
I remember my parents going out. When we were little, we were all involved in the primping. As we got older, in my memory of childhood,...
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Rock Stars and Roadies: The Parenting Dilemma
The 7th graders are going to perform their original songs at Mississippi Studios this week. My husband and I were so excited to see the...
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Post Mother’s Day Feels: Embrace Your Brand of Mothering
Every Mother’s Day since this whole social media thing, I completely enjoy all of the outpouring to mothers here and mothers gone, from...
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Will we time out of gymnastics journey?
Our son came 20th in the region (5 states) for his age group. He jumped off the pommel. It was the last event and the choice to jump off ...
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Home Alone: A week of parenting without my spouse
Do you have kids in different school systems with different breaks? We made it through the first year of separate spring breaks. My son...
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A year ago yesterday
The coach in me assigned myself a year of reflection that I chose to do on the 21st each month. The assignment happened organically. I...
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Regret Is Normal, even for parents
I know one thing. If you regret having children, your kids don’t want or need to hear about it. That’s the tough part. Parents need to...
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Feeling Loved
This moment just hit me. My Dad and I went to visit my Aunt and Uncle at their nursing home yesterday. My Uncle shrieked with delight....
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Feeling Not Acting
I like to write about the mother-daughter relationship. In this piece, I explore the moments when you are both a mother and daughter. I...
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The Middle of the Night
I am up at 3:30 am. Half muttering in my thoughts about why the Internet is so slow. And I imagine my mother saying, “it’s the middle of...
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Arpeggios #Tweenlife - Why We Practice with Our Kids
I was sight singing with our son before he did his piano playing. First, we rhythm read, sing the notes, then play. When I asked, "Did...
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